There are many things to learn about the Royal House and many ways to interact with it as well.
Thourgh meetings with members of the House it is possible to be invited to gatherings or special events at the Royal House. If you show an interest in learning more you may be invited to the the House.
It is possible to enter the Royal House at the lowest level and one day rise to command the Spider Knights and become a trusted member of the Royal Inner Circle. Some Members leave after a few years, others stay for decades, Some are content to remain only "friends of the Royal House", a polite euphemism for those who choose not to join.
Once you are allowed to become a member there is a ceremony which one under goes to be initiated into the traditions of the House. This event is conducted by His Majesty, the Dairamont and he is accompanied by his Royal Chief Protocol Officer, the Royal Archivist who will take pictures and make notes later on regarding the event and several members of the Royal House who serve as witnesses. often, on such occasions the initiate will have several family members in attendance for the investiture